Imitation behavior caused by a person closing to children as mom and dad including their favorite people and those who regularly spend time with them. However, if the behaviors from these people gradually affect children’s moods that may eventually lead them to imitate those behaviors.
Behaviors parents should pay attention to their children.
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- Violent: Being aggressive, both expressing words and actions usually appear when a child has bad emotions or cannot solve a problem; Young children may imitate some behaviors from parents such as parents fight, parents using bad language, raising a voice, making noise or destroying objects. Accordingly, they can feel familiar with and automatically absorb which finally adopt those behaviors to themselves.
- Violent: Being aggressive, both expressing words and actions usually appear when a child has bad emotions or cannot solve a problem; Young children may imitate some behaviors from parents such as parents fight, parents using bad language, raising a voice, making noise or destroying objects. Accordingly, they can feel familiar with and automatically absorb which finally adopt those behaviors to themselves.
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Media Violence Effects such games using an intensive fighting strategy. Children may give repetitive attention causes feeling familiar with a solution that make the other party to lose. Besides they may not emphasize or feel sorry about what they have done according to the games.
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Lying your child may have seen a friend lying and not causing problems. Or sometimes parents make their kids lie in certain situations while they still not knowing about a reason. Therefore, parents should explain or speak to them directly so that they can know what they want and speak it instead of lying to you.
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Picking up stuff or Stealing Children may see some behavior at home, for example, someone in a house picks up items without permission. Including picking up things used by many people and not giving back. Causing children understand that picking up items they want without asking for permission is allowed. Parents must demonstrate behaviors about the right of using objects. For instance, permission requires when children need to use something or pick up items first.
Good behaviors is started from parents
1. Parents should be good role models for children: speaking, action, problem-solving or self-control, social skills. Avoid aggressive behaviors, describe or explain your child without emotional distractions together with soft tone but stress when coming to a serious topic.
2. Parents should immediately compliment when they see a child trying to behave nicely, such as helping the family, doing homework and duties at home in order to give them pride. And intention to do good. Accordingly parents should become a good example and indoctrinate them with ethics and morals.
Children’s Health Center Phyathai 2 Hospital
Call 02 617-2444 ext. 3219-3220.
