วัคซีนใจ…3 สิ่งนี้สอนลูกไว้ให้โตไปเอาตัวรอดได้ทุกสถานการณ์
Children who are able to learn things fast but eventually end up their life by suicide that might due to parents having no time to teach their kids how to manage or encounter with problems. As a result, they then lack of skills and suffer therefore, the parents require to know about these 3 factors that help your children defend all obstacles and become strong person from inside and outside.
1. Maturity is the ability when the brain more functions on critical thinking than thinking refers to desire. Parents need to teach them on how to be rational and avoid using their emotions when decide to do something.
When your children want something try explaining about the necessary of what they want.
Parents should guide children and distinguish a difference between “Need” and “Want”
If It is Necessary, then Parents Should Find Another Solution
Some stuff is very needed in daily but when parents are unaffordable then other ways out should be guiding them to do things for example renting or using substitute product.
Do not buy it immediately … teach your kids how to wait
Even thing they want is very necessary and you as a parent have no power to buy it. Teaching them to wait is required to make them control their want or desire as this links to their sextual desire in the futher if they do not control it otherwise the sextual desire can lead them to do sex easily.
2. Self esteem is the teaching the kids to have respect and love in themselves based on who they are as follows:
Get to Know Their Potential
Having low grade does mean the kids have no potential of learning whereas, each children has different talented or ability. Parents should observe and ask them to encourage or train them specific skills that fit in them by not referring to socialflow or trend.
Determine the Purpose of Their Life
To make life more energetic creating inspiration in your children like asking them or having conversation with them about what they want to be in the future basing on their skills in order that that dream will never pressure them to achieve it in the future.
Endeavor
In this generation many teens love to put themselves in convenience zone which parents must let them learn to struggle and face the problems in order that they can push themselves forward to bright future and aimed mission.
3. Pursuing happiness in life is a learning experience that will create happiness in different ways, divided into 4 levels as follows:
Entertainment: Happiness happens through sight, scent, taste and touching most of them require money and high expense which may lead to debt.
Aesthetics : Happiness comes from admiration which creates joy and inspiration in life.
Natural Exposure: Happiness from relaxation and learning from the merit of nature.
Be Considerable Living Life: Happiness caused by good consciousness in the daily routine such as meditation with no stress helps their mind relaxed and not attached to negative things.
Dr. Sukamon Wipaweeponkul
Head of Psychiatry Department
Phyathai 2 Hospital
